Sherman on the Mount (Sherman Kuek): Anyway, Apology Accepted
Have you ever realised that you've just wronged somebody, and then gone back to the person to offer a sincere apology? Have you ever gone back to a person to offer a sincere apology, only to receive an earful of lectures from the person you're saying sorry to just before he says, "Anyway, apology accepted"?
There are different ways of accepting an apology and forgiving someone. One really good way is to get back at the person who's apologising before forgiving him. Because he wronged you or made you feel put down, so since he is now putting himself at a disadvantage by coming to you in humility, you take the opportunity to give him a piece of your mind. Yeah, give him a taste of his own medicine, THEN say, "Anyway, apology accepted" or "I forgive you".
But in so doing, ....
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